Saturday, June 13, 2009

Do sex toys make or break a relationship?


More people are buying sex toys everyday but is that hurting your love life and making it better? Sex toys can spice up your life, add adventure to your bedroom, and it can be a good way to strengthen up you and your spouse love making. Many women have a hard time trying to get an orgasm unless they are receiving clitoral stimulation, which can be difficult with penetration and some men can’t keep their erection long enough for the women to have an orgasm and that's unfair for the women. Sex toys can help in both of these situation, a vibrator can stimulate the clitoral while she’s being penetrated and that way the man don't have to keep waiting for the women to have an orgasm. Using a sex toy can be a lot of fun because sex can get repetitive (boring) and introducing these toys in your relationship can keep things from getting really boring. Sharing new experiences with your spouse can be very intimate, so using these sex toys together can bring you and your spouse together.

Sex toys can make your spouse feel inadequate; some men would feel if their spouse goes out and get vibrator or any other sex toy that they will have no purpose in the bed room anymore. A man wants to have control of the sexual experiments so if women feel like they would like to use a sex toy, they should throw the idea out there to their spouse to make them feel like they came up with the idea, now you’re both happy!






Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Why Women Fake Orgasm?


This question always goes threw men’s head’s why do Women Fake Orgasm. There are a lot of rumors going around that every woman with their life span has faked an orgasm either once, twice and etc, IS THIS TRUE? AND IF SO WHY DO WOMEN DO IT? Who should be blamed men or women? Is it because men can’t perform correctly or women just don't no what good sex is?There are many reasons to answer this question but there is not a right or wrong because everybody experiences different emotion sexual. The most common reason for the question is women don't want to make the man feel bad, or the sex is prolonging and they just want to go to sleep because their tired. Another reason to this question is that some females don't look for orgasm just the desire to be in a sexual relationship, but this still has a big effect on their partner so the only way to hurt their partner women just fake it. Some women really don't even have orgasm regardless of how good the sex is or how good you think the sex is, but even though they don't experience an orgasm they refuse to lower their partners self esteem, knowing that men EXPECT for their sex to be great a pleasurable for the women.Women can loss the interest of sex and just having sex because their partner wants to, that tends to make women fake it. Gossip is a woman's subject, sometimes women talk to their friends about a lot of stuff especially their sex life, so if a women is talking to her friends out sex and how she fakes and if her friends say they do the same thing it gives her a sigh of relief and makes her do it even more because she's not the only one begin dishonest with their man. A big reason is when men try to hard, when they think that their hitting that spot when actually their not, or when they tend to be to rough makes a women fake it even more because number one the men sex just might not be all of that to the women and number two is men can't pound every women, some women just don't like it that way. Women can also fear rejection if the man doesn’t understand why she fakes it, so men really can't be made that a women fakes it's their own fault depending on the circumstances. There are a few ways of faking it ladies: moaning loudly, shaking your legs, holding him or something else tightly, moan while he is having an orgasm or just be all out dramatic about the situation. They'll never know and if a man says he knows "HE DOESNT"! Men should start being opened minded about sex and listen to their women, don't let her fear you about anything if you choose to do this women will be more open tell you during sex or even after that she did not have an orgasm and why she didn't have one. Communication is the key to great relationships and excellent sex, asking your spouse why isn’t she having orgasms and she breaks it down to you with every little detail, I promise the next time you guys have sex it will be like having sex for the first time especially for her.