SEX TAPES

I have different feelings on sex tapes, I think there cool to do with you and your spouse but I mean do you guys actually go back and look at it? What if your kids find out because you know their investigators, they find everything? Tell me what you do with your sex tape, if you would ever make one, or just your basic opinion on sex tapes.

Summer Date Ideas

Summer is defiantly dating season and you have more chances or getting a whole bunch of phone number's. Some women love the sun and can't get enough of it, so its hard for them to turn down an outdoorsy offer. So here are ten summer date ideas.....

"Wash Her Car"
You guys can have water fights playful stuff like that, and most likely it could start in a wet bikini contest...lol...Great chance for you to get a sneak peek of her body!

"Garage Sale Hop"
Since vintage is in some females would like to go to different garage sales to see what kinds of old stuff they can get. Plus this can allow you to get brownie points with her because you took the time out and was interested in her likes.

"FLY A KITE"
This might sound like some kiddie stuff but I just this would be real cute of you if you asked you lady "Do you want to fly a kite". It would probably make her feel like a kid again.

"Go To The Pool"
If you take your lady friend to the pool, this will allow you to play around with each other and basically get a good feel of each other (I'm not saying feel her up LOL).

"Go To A Drive In Movie"
So not every state has one of these, but it will be really romantic if you could find one. Back in the day guys would take their lady friends to places like this, some movies you can't get close and cuddle but at least in a car you can snuggle in the back seat and watch a great movie.

"Take A Walk"
Walking and talking is a great way to get to no someone because you can stroll and ask whatever you like to understand you spouse better.

"Take A Drive"
Just cursing the town could be romantic, especially if she doesn't live in the same state. Show here around and even if she does live in the same state just curse around town holding hands.

"See An Outdoor Concert"
Going to see her favorite artist is great, it will show her that you actually listen to things she really cares about.

"Go To An Amusement Park"
An amusement park is a great idea, it will once again make her feel like a kid again.

"Go On A Picnic"
Any and every girl love a nice picnic, and you will never go wrong if you decide to do this.

Sex Tip Of The Day

When you get up in the morning for work or school or whatever activity your going do for the day, as soon as that alarm clock goes off just start getting it in with your spouse. I'm pretty sure your day will be less stressful and more exciting. *Smooches*

Five Lies Women Might Tell You

*I'M NOT MAD AT YOU*

Ok most women have been in relationships that dealt with emotional abuse so this saying is used a lot in relationships. For example when a man forgets birthdays or anniversaries, o this a MAJOR ONE calling your spouse by your ex's name "OUCH", women don't let stuff like that go and they are going to keep dwelling on it. So some women instead of not admitting that she is hurt by whatever a man had done she said those magic words "I'M NOT MAD AT YOU", but in all actuality she is PISSED! So even if she say's those words still make it up to her by fixing the situation, maybe by telling her you know she is upset and would she like to talk about it.

"I DON'T MIND IF YOU GO TO THE STRIP CLUB WITH YOUR HOMIES"
Most women don't even like strip clubs and for you to think she really wouldn't mind you going to the strip club with the HOMIES. Some women might enjoy strip clubs but still would rather you take her instead of you friends. If a women tell you thats its ok for you to go to a stirp club with the guys you might want to rethink going because she might be having another dude come over and take your place LOL, or if you do decided to go you are deffiently going come home to DRAMA. So if you don't want to deal with that maybe you should ask her to come along or just don't go at all. If you really love someone you have to make sacrifices in order to stay with that person, remember that!

"I'M JUST NOT READY FOR A BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW"
This is a funny one....

Some women have a heard time rejecting people, so guys if she say this famous line "I'M JUST NOT READY FOR A BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW" or "I just came out of a bad relationship, and I don't want to be hurt again," or "I'm just too busy with my career right now to have a boyfriend." The truth is SHE JUST NOT INTO YOU DUDE lol and while she is telling you this she will NOT look you in the eyes or come up with a million other different excuses. What you should do is man up and take rejection, or ask her to be honest with you!

"I DON'T MIND PAYING TONIGHT SINCE YOU ALWAYS PAY"

Now this is deffiently some B.S., some women never go out thinking she has to pay for anything expecially if they were asked out in the first place. So don't be fooled by this statement, but if I was a dude and a female said she didn't mind paying then I would make her pay because she shouldn't of lied. But since I'm not a dude and I'm pretty sure guys would just end up paying only because you expect her to give up the panties, or some guys just might feel like a women shouldn't have to pay for anything.

"THAT WAS F*CKING GREAT"
O gosh...Men are always fooled by this one LOL
Females have the tendency to tell guys what they want to hear expecially when it come down to busting that big O. They make sound and shake their body to make it seem like yea you hit the spot to make them cum LOL. But hey I feel like if a female lies about having an orgasm don't be mad just be like "WELL I GOT MINES" LOL.....

Do sex toys make or break a relationship?

More people are buying sex toys everyday but is that hurting your love life and making it better? Sex toys can spice up your life, add adventure to your bedroom, and it can be a good way to strengthen up you and your spouse love making. Many women have a hard time trying to get an orgasm unless they are receiving clitoral stimulation, which can be difficult with penetration and some men can’t keep their erection long enough for the women to have an orgasm and that's unfair for the women. Sex toys can help in both of these situation, a vibrator can stimulate the clitoral while she’s being penetrated and that way the man don't have to keep waiting for the women to have an orgasm. Using a sex toy can be a lot of fun because sex can get repetitive (boring) and introducing these toys in your relationship can keep things from getting really boring. Sharing new experiences with your spouse can be very intimate, so using these sex toys together can bring you and your spouse together.

Sex toys can make your spouse feel inadequate; some men would feel if their spouse goes out and get vibrator or any other sex toy that they will have no purpose in the bed room anymore. A man wants to have control of the sexual experiments so if women feel like they would like to use a sex toy, they should throw the idea out there to their spouse to make them feel like they came up with the idea, now you’re both happy!

Why Women Fake Orgasm?

This question always goes threw men’s head’s why do Women Fake Orgasm. There are a lot of rumors going around that every woman with their life span has faked an orgasm either once, twice and etc, IS THIS TRUE? AND IF SO WHY DO WOMEN DO IT? Who should be blamed men or women? Is it because men can’t perform correctly or women just don't no what good sex is?There are many reasons to answer this question but there is not a right or wrong because everybody experiences different emotion sexual. The most common reason for the question is women don't want to make the man feel bad, or the sex is prolonging and they just want to go to sleep because their tired. Another reason to this question is that some females don't look for orgasm just the desire to be in a sexual relationship, but this still has a big effect on their partner so the only way to hurt their partner women just fake it. Some women really don't even have orgasm regardless of how good the sex is or how good you think the sex is, but even though they don't experience an orgasm they refuse to lower their partners self esteem, knowing that men EXPECT for their sex to be great a pleasurable for the women.Women can loss the interest of sex and just having sex because their partner wants to, that tends to make women fake it. Gossip is a woman's subject, sometimes women talk to their friends about a lot of stuff especially their sex life, so if a women is talking to her friends out sex and how she fakes and if her friends say they do the same thing it gives her a sigh of relief and makes her do it even more because she's not the only one begin dishonest with their man. A big reason is when men try to hard, when they think that their hitting that spot when actually their not, or when they tend to be to rough makes a women fake it even more because number one the men sex just might not be all of that to the women and number two is men can't pound every women, some women just don't like it that way. Women can also fear rejection if the man doesn’t understand why she fakes it, so men really can't be made that a women fakes it's their own fault depending on the circumstances. There are a few ways of faking it ladies: moaning loudly, shaking your legs, holding him or something else tightly, moan while he is having an orgasm or just be all out dramatic about the situation. They'll never know and if a man says he knows "HE DOESNT"! Men should start being opened minded about sex and listen to their women, don't let her fear you about anything if you choose to do this women will be more open tell you during sex or even after that she did not have an orgasm and why she didn't have one. Communication is the key to great relationships and excellent sex, asking your spouse why isn’t she having orgasms and she breaks it down to you with every little detail, I promise the next time you guys have sex it will be like having sex for the first time especially for her.